Founding Circle · Bay Area, California

Six weeks. Thoughtful pairings.
A real chance to become friends.

A small Bay Area cohortOnce a week, 90 minutesVirtual gatheringsStarts January 2027
Create Your Friendship Profile

Takes about 5–7 minutesOpt into the Circle near the end

How it works

Giving friendship a chance to grow

Six weeks with the same group of Bay Area women — long enough to see which connections might grow.

01

Meet in the Circle

Come together virtually each week for a relaxed, facilitated conversation about the real experience of adult friendship.

02

Connect one-to-one

Spend time talking with a thoughtfully selected woman from the Circle — so you can actually get to know each other.

03

Take it into real life

Meet again for a simple friendship date around the Bay Area: coffee, a walk, lunch, music, or something else you both enjoy.

What we talk about

Six weeks, six conversations

These themes are still taking shape. We'll confirm the final six with your cohort before week one — so if something here matters more to you than something else, you'll get a say.

Week 1

The Friendship You Want

Clarifying what you're looking for now, what feels meaningful, and what “good friendship” actually looks like in this season of life.

Week 2

Giving Friendship Room to Grow

Friendship usually needs repeated contact, time, and a little patience — not instant chemistry or pressure to know right away.

Week 3

Moving Beyond “We Should Do This Again”

How friendships actually move forward: reaching out, making the next plan, reciprocating, and turning a pleasant meeting into another one.

Week 4

Finding Your Friendship Rhythm

Understanding your own patterns around closeness, initiative, frequency, availability, social energy, and what helps connection feel sustainable.

Week 5

From Pleasant Conversation to Real Connection

Moving beyond surface conversation naturally — curiosity, listening, sharing more of yourself, and allowing trust to build without forcing vulnerability.

Week 6

Tending What Is Growing

Not every connection needs to become a close friendship. Recognizing what has potential, investing where there's reciprocity, and tending a fuller “garden” of different kinds of friendship.

Peer-led and experiential. Not therapy, not coaching.

The trade

What you get, and what we ask

What you get

  • A weekly 90-minute gathering with the same circle of women, facilitated so no one has to carry the conversation.
  • A one-to-one conversation every week, with a thoughtfully chosen partner.
  • Friendship dates around the Bay Area, so the connections continue away from a screen.
  • Free access through the pilot, and a direct line to me while GoodFriends is being built.

The weekly day and time are chosen by the cohort — we'll poll members once the Circle is selected, most likely a weekday between noon and 5pm.

What we ask

  • Attend at least 4 of the 6 virtual gatherings.
  • Make a good-faith effort to have at least 2 friendship dates.
  • Complete brief feedback surveys.
  • Be open to a 30-minute feedback conversation if invited.
  • Follow Our Friendship Promise.

That's it. You don't need to click with everyone, share anything that feels too personal, or have friendship figured out before you arrive.

More questions about the Circle? Check out our FAQs

Interested?

Start by creating your Friendship Profile. Near the end, you can let us know you'd like to be considered for the Founding Circle.

Creating your profile doesn't commit you to the Circle.

Create Your Friendship Profile

Takes about 5–7 minutesFree during our Bay Area pilot